The Fantasy of the Domineering Woman in Many Men: What to Know?

When it comes to fantasies and sexual desires, almost anything goes. Even if some men have a hard time admitting it, some like to be dominated in bed. The domineering woman represents for them a real fantasy.

Domination in BDSM

The acronym “BDSM” stands for bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadomasochism. It represents the set of sexual acts combining pain, control, power, and humiliation. It has become increasingly popular in recent years thanks to the literary series “50 Shades of Gray” itself adapted to the cinema.

You need a dominant person and a submissive person for this scene. There is no hard and fast rule, and the person in power could just as easily be a domineering man or, in our case, a domineering woman. The latter has “total” and consented control over her sexual partner (a submissive man, also called a slave).

What Is a Domineering Woman?

A domineering woman is, above all, a woman who leads the game. She adopts an active attitude, so it is she who holds the reins. She likes to dominate, and that’s how she gets her pleasure. The domineering woman takes as much pleasure in controlling as in seeing her submissive partner. She derives her pleasure from the sadomasochism inflicted on her slave.

In the jargon, this type of woman is also called “SM mistress.” It is then up to man to show submission and try various practices, some more daring than others. But beware, everyone derives their pleasure from it because domination is not synonymous with sadism. There is always a “contract” that binds the two partners. This is understood to mean an agreement (often oral) on authorized sexual practices and those prohibited.

A BDSM dominatrix is ​​often characterized by leather clothes, latex outfits, a whip, a riding crop, boots, a strap-on, or even handcuffs. Some women even have a dedicated room called a Dungeon where you can find suitable equipment.

What is Her Role?

The role of any sexual partner is to take pleasure but also to give it to their partner. Since it is the domineering woman who has the upper hand, her desires come before those of her submissive. The latter takes pleasure in satisfying his mistress.

It will be up to the latter to take the lead. She will have to take the controls and lead the erotic games. Moreover, in this type of relationship, games are inherent in sexual relationships. It will be up to the mistress to lead the dance, to have fun, and give it to her submissive… Finally, if he deserves it.

The forms of domination can be diverse. This can range from humiliating acts such as keeping the submissive man on a leash, asking him to have his feet licked, locking the man in a cage, psychological humiliations such as insults, or even purely sexual acts such as giving spanking her strap-on dildo, chastity cage, etc.

A security word must always be set up before the start of the session. As soon as it is pronounced, the mistress will have to stop any sexual act not to endanger the submissive.

How to Meet Domineering Women?

You have the choice between professional dominatrixes (those who make a profession of it) and women who are in their private life because they like it. Whether for one or the other, the best way to meet them is on the internet. There you will find many BDSM dating sites.